tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post8045112216401650012..comments2024-01-07T00:44:10.737-08:00Comments on Lisa Snellings: Change comes of its own free willAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17033378825749946868noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-9983163400235883552009-07-05T06:56:55.490-07:002009-07-05T06:56:55.490-07:00Went on a long weekend, and missed the initial pos...Went on a long weekend, and missed the initial post until just now. <br /><br />I think a grieving period tends to relate the severity of the loss; I think that mourning for the loss of a marriage certainly takes a year or years. <br /><br />Last year at this time, you were just surviving, putting one day at a time, just getting through it. You weren't grieving yet. Through the intervening year, you've done so some. Now the weather/light patterns/schedule patterns are most similar to the days of the worst of it, and so you're reminded of the loss again. <br /><br />If you can talk about it in a public forum, then you're not over your loss, but you can at least partly put it behind you. <br /><br />And I don't think it's the crying or not crying that defines bravery/fortitude/strength. It's the coming back, which you're doing. <br /><br />Here's to another year, better than the last one!Craig Steffenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08847697222583253640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-87920840045304411832009-07-03T22:29:50.421-07:002009-07-03T22:29:50.421-07:00Anticlimactic is sometimes just right.
G'nigh...Anticlimactic is sometimes just right.<br /><br />G'night. Sleep well.Beezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03355803193314619996noreply@blogger.com