tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post5672883671756244489..comments2024-01-07T00:44:10.737-08:00Comments on Lisa Snellings: Day 306Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17033378825749946868noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-57553236522378991752011-10-28T07:22:50.661-07:002011-10-28T07:22:50.661-07:00Elaine - If I'm going to take my own advice (n...Elaine - If I'm going to take my own advice (not so easy, she says, sheepishly) I'll tell myself it's simply my turn for this sort of experience. <br /><br />anonymous:Yes. Life is messy. And then angry groundlings throw dirt at you.lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07410230007560550179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-83319003807452894002011-10-28T02:27:58.054-07:002011-10-28T02:27:58.054-07:00Work it well dirty little popetWork it well dirty little popetAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-40617226677724184092011-10-27T00:56:45.263-07:002011-10-27T00:56:45.263-07:00Lisa, I haven't stopped by here often in the p...Lisa, I haven't stopped by here often in the past year, which I'm really sorry about.<br /><br />I've no doubt that Poppet will be rebuilt, and that you will rebuild, and be stronger for it. It's a strange road we're all on, at times. I'm just sorry you're having to deal with someone else's baggage, especially when they are lashing out.<br /><br />~Elaine aka QuixoticAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-46938407225877608012011-10-26T22:05:44.101-07:002011-10-26T22:05:44.101-07:00Thanks again, to each of you. Your comments let m...Thanks again, to each of you. Your comments let me know you're there, your words are full of care and good sense. <br />Drinne: Please don't worry. I know you. You'd have to make a real effort to be "wrong" as far as I'm concerned. It sounds like you've taken a bit too much criticism lately, or that something else has happened to make you doubt yourself. Stop that, please, the doubting part. Too much of you will be lost to the rest of us.lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07410230007560550179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-62396119729624096952011-10-26T19:51:42.245-07:002011-10-26T19:51:42.245-07:00I'm in a weird place right now where it's ...I'm in a weird place right now where it's kind of hard for me to say anything to anyone, i'm terrified lately of saying something wrong or saying something true,but I want to say this, <br /><br />It's like the ripples from the blast radius isn't it? Not the epicenter just the jarring aftereffects. <br /><br />Somehow knowing they're coming doesn't really lessen the effects. <br /><br />Be as strong as you need to, but let all the other stuff be there too. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. I'm also sorry I've been so quiet but frequently when I think about saying something I find myself thinking I should say it to you. So thanks for that - maybe sharing that bit with you can help patch over a small bit of the foundation the poppet murderer is trying to break. <br /><br />The WV is Oroti which seems like it should be some sort of pasta that constellations make to eat with visiting in-laws.Drinnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08836936987746258926noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-67413928134048312882011-10-26T16:32:58.830-07:002011-10-26T16:32:58.830-07:00Lisa, this is sad news. But I hear you. I hear y...Lisa, this is sad news. But I hear you. I hear you saying you reported it and you are ok and you have secured the premises etc... You are being so responsible and sound. That is all good. I'm glad. But I myself am madder than a hornet and if you said so i'd go give him what for! (and then some) I suppose pity (for him)is really in order yes? Take care fellow traveller.Stacy Hurthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14590531650763481027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-71207960147757147482011-10-26T12:16:48.725-07:002011-10-26T12:16:48.725-07:00Love and hugs. When the harsh taskmistress in your...Love and hugs. When the harsh taskmistress in your head starts scolding you, remember that, at least at first, we see only what people want us to see. Recognizing what else is there is the big battle, and one that you have won.<br /><br />I'm glad that you reported it. There is some weird sense in our culture that "women make too much of these things", when in fact women are most at risk from those that they love or once loved. Again, when the harsh one in your head starts taking you to task, remind her that you have protected both your life and Orion's.<br /><br />Poppet can be resurrected, and will be stronger for the experience.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-50921667865068234042011-10-25T06:45:56.766-07:002011-10-25T06:45:56.766-07:00Ehhh, geography..... I'd LOVE to do internship...Ehhh, geography..... I'd LOVE to do internship or volunteer or whatever... If you ever plan to franchise overseas to Europe...:) in the meanwhile I'll just admire from afar, and hope everything goes well with you and your work.yemamayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05976272924091763444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-371950291868412712011-10-25T04:06:43.305-07:002011-10-25T04:06:43.305-07:00I agree with Lisa. It's intervention time with...I agree with Lisa. It's intervention time with your head-chick. *fist pound* We'll go totally Chuck Norris on her. You have my full e-support, and as soon as Poppet is rebuilt, I'm sure she'll agree.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14296551076317221390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-19774027858905614922011-10-24T15:28:51.378-07:002011-10-24T15:28:51.378-07:00How awful. *hugs* Sounds like you have one of th...How awful. *hugs* Sounds like you have one of those people that don't care whether or not they win, so long as you lose. You are wise to be very cautious.<br /><br />As for the b**ch in your head, tell her to knock it off already. You can't change the past, and beating yourself up over it just makes your present and future miserable. There is no shame in making mistakes. We all do.lindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03343176465582353881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-17130025231471902162011-10-24T10:58:13.364-07:002011-10-24T10:58:13.364-07:00Thanks again. Not to worry. I'm not letting ...Thanks again. Not to worry. I'm not letting my guard down and I did report it. My instincts are intact and I'll do what it takes to protect me and mine.<br /> I feel Poppet. I will rebuild her body. It will be different. Please send collectors to my shop. Etsy is my sole support and I can only make so many poppets in a week. I'm looking for collectors to buy the larger work, and for an intern to help me make poppets. Leads in either direction would be greatly appreciated. True enough, these days surviving is thriving. It's still okay to ask for help now and then. Artists seem to have a hard time asking. Possibly I'm learning that's not the best plan.<br />If I'm ever going to get this poppet book written, I'm going to have to learn to ask for help. Apparently, it takes a village to raise a creative project.lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07410230007560550179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-768918569949778972011-10-24T09:16:09.879-07:002011-10-24T09:16:09.879-07:00Poppets are very protective of their humans, just ...Poppets are very protective of their humans, just as humans want to protect their poppets. I am so sorry that your poppet was hurt; I am glad it was not you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08252890741829487017noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-37531333525053218322011-10-24T04:11:07.845-07:002011-10-24T04:11:07.845-07:00*Mourning for poppet* I'm so sorry, Lisa... An...*Mourning for poppet* I'm so sorry, Lisa... An awful experience, to be sure, but that POPPET was caught in the crossfire... :'(Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14296551076317221390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-87518932011270021462011-10-24T03:57:16.292-07:002011-10-24T03:57:16.292-07:00Thinking of you and yours. Be safe, be calm and be...Thinking of you and yours. Be safe, be calm and be careful. And don't listen to your accuser - because part of the whole relationship think is trust and trying to find the good in the people we connect with. At least you saw the signs and moved to remove yourself from the situation. And poor poppet - its often the innocent who bear the brunt of the actions of silly humans.<br /><br />Big hugsShonnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06682375259803431061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-75701492824334969922011-10-23T09:47:47.555-07:002011-10-23T09:47:47.555-07:00How scary! And yes, hindsight is 20/20.How scary! And yes, hindsight is 20/20.Diandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14570498251611083259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-40952727597297417682011-10-23T01:11:19.856-07:002011-10-23T01:11:19.856-07:00Lisa, hon... Its no use saying much, is there? But...Lisa, hon... Its no use saying much, is there? But we all do this. We alwazs console ourselves past warning signs with But-its-me-stuff. We seem to forget that we can all so easily turn from The Soulmate into The Bitch Who Is Guilty Of Everything Gone Wrong in someones head. My problem is that i sometimes sterted belive that. It was THAN that things really started turning ugly for me. Hang in there hon. This too shal pass.There is a bunch of people and poppets who hold you dear no matter what.yemamayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05976272924091763444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-11997189756907136492011-10-22T23:38:38.673-07:002011-10-22T23:38:38.673-07:00Please, take care. Think about all of the ramific...Please, take care. Think about all of the ramifications of failing to heed your realization of the falsehoods underlying the "It's <i>me</i>, after all. Things are different with <i>me</i>" mindset. Yes, we silly humans do learn, but no sense making the lessons any harder than they already have been. His actions are not yours to control, nor yours to take credit or blame for. Keep yourself and your loved ones safe - we'd all like to help, but we're all too far away to do more than offer our words and thoughts. And please don't castigate yourself about trusting - without trust there's no love, and we all need both of those to get through this life. Best wishes!DavidKnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-37759096559611031782011-10-22T22:49:53.064-07:002011-10-22T22:49:53.064-07:00Good thing you weren't there, even if the poor...Good thing you weren't there, even if the poor Poppet took the blunt of anger in your stead.<br />Take care.<br />You should report this to the police.spacedlawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12462723005560128474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-45066748425213643622011-10-22T19:44:11.405-07:002011-10-22T19:44:11.405-07:00This sucks, lady. Stay strong and look after kids...This sucks, lady. Stay strong and look after kids and cats.<br /><br />The mean bitch telling you you "should know better at your age" doesn't even know a tenth of what you know about life and love and awe.crydwynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05111274748281584091noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-86774404360020828982011-10-22T18:09:46.807-07:002011-10-22T18:09:46.807-07:00Longtime fan and Poppet lover here...
Take care, ...Longtime fan and Poppet lover here...<br /><br />Take care, Lisa. I worry it might not stop with this.<br /><br />Sending you love and light and peace-<br /><br />Lili, once in Ireland, now in NetherlandsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-60486187246434372672011-10-22T17:15:18.644-07:002011-10-22T17:15:18.644-07:00Thanks, guys. I'm really okay. In the back o...Thanks, guys. I'm really okay. In the back of my mind I know I was expecting something. Every little noise wakes me at night (not helping anything) but it was still a bit of a shock to drive up and see a mess like that. I was worried he might be in the house. Afraid for the cats, for the other work in the house. He crossed a line I didn't think he would. Once someone does that, it's hard to know where the line is, or if there is one anymore. Today one of my neighbors came and told me he witnessed some of what happened and would talk to an officer about it.<br /> This act was meant to hurt me by hurting a piece of my work, my identity. In the beginning, he sometimes called me 'poppet.' It was a light-hearted compliment. Later, it was with contempt. And now, this. Hard to take. I think my embarassment comes from the voice saying, "You should've known better." This is the voice of my accuser and it adds "at your age."<br />(My accuser is a mean bitch.)<br /> Don't worry about me. I think he's in a bad place and a dangerous, self-destructive one. I did see that coming and at least had the sense to remove myself from it when I knew I couldn't fix it. I'll figure this out, but I do appreciate your being here. We learn, we silly humans, don't we?lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07410230007560550179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-59480991959240990652011-10-22T15:43:12.932-07:002011-10-22T15:43:12.932-07:00Oh lordy - i hope you have recovered somewhat from...Oh lordy - i hope you have recovered somewhat from the shock. <br /><br />Learn, grow, trust yourself and your value.You can not be hurt unless you give permission, and that goes for poppet too. She lives on xxxCarriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01475182740888543862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-37096408773441550672011-10-22T15:22:21.457-07:002011-10-22T15:22:21.457-07:00Oh, Lisa. I'm so sorry this happened. Rememb...Oh, Lisa. I'm so sorry this happened. Remember, first, that you can only truly be responsible for your own actions, not those of others--and that even if we think we see signs of warning, it's hard to be sure sometimes that those signs apply to us. That shame you feel is completely misplaced, and not your burden to bear.<br /><br />Surrounding you and yours with light, with a special dose for Murdered Poppet in the hope that her spirit remains and grows stronger in her new place. And in case you're feeling as broken as Poppet..."The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places." Ernest Hemingway, <i>A Farewell to Arms</i>, 1929. (Ignore the rest of the quotation--this is the part we might all wish to focus on.)Sydnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-4961459590212923722011-10-22T13:45:12.122-07:002011-10-22T13:45:12.122-07:00I'm sad for you today, wishing Life's less...I'm sad for you today, wishing Life's lesson didn't have to be so harsh. Poppets will tell you not to blame yourself for being human. And they're right, though it is hard to heed their advice. Take care.Melissa Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11737872001702010167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9604161.post-18664930987327476682011-10-22T13:39:30.663-07:002011-10-22T13:39:30.663-07:00Wow Lisa, what an AWFUL experience! It's terri...Wow Lisa, what an AWFUL experience! It's terrifying how twisted some people allow their minds (and hearts) to become... Hope you're ok. And I hope poppet comes 'home'. <br /><br />Your heed to be careful with who you let into your life resonates so with me - I've made similar mistakes & have spent years licking those same weary wounds of shame. But - we learn discernment from these harsh experiences, we learn to better respect ourselves by listening to our intuitive guidance. We learn. And eventually we look back with intense gratitude for the wisdom we gained - and compassion for the poor broken creatures who lashed out of such scared damaged spaces. Wishing you healing, lasting love & joy, Scarlet xscar*let ngunihttp://carletnguni.comnoreply@blogger.com